What's one thing you'd warn someone about before dating me?
Couples deck · 110 cards
Questions for couples
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For two people who think they know each other pretty well. The first few are easy. The last few are the reason the deck exists.
All 110 questions
The whole deck in order, from light to deep. Handy if you'd rather read from a list or print it.
Light
- What's one thing you'd warn someone about before dating me?
- What's the most "us" thing we do?
- What's your ideal lazy Sunday, hour by hour?
- Which of our friends would make the worst roommate?
- Which trip do we keep talking about and never book?
- What's a tiny thing I do that makes your day better?
- Which of my phrases have you started saying yourself?
- What's a film you'd happily watch with me for the fifth time?
- What's a meal I make, or always order, that you secretly don't love?
- What's the first thing you noticed about me that you didn't mention for a while?
- If we opened a small shop together, what would it sell and who'd do the accounts?
- What's the most "me" thing I do?
- Were you nervous during our first kiss?
- What do you tell your friends about me?
- What did you think when you first saw me?
- Could you tell I liked you the whole time?
- Same side of the booth or across the table?
- What's one weird hill you think I'd die on?
- What's a tiny habit of mine you find adorable?
- What do you remember most about our first date?
- What's one thing about me you secretly love to hate?
- What song would you love to hear me perform at karaoke?
- What was your first "I think I like them" moment with me?
- What's the most ridiculous thing we've ever argued about?
- If our relationship were a food pairing, what would it be?
- What's the tell that gives away when I'm annoyed or upset?
- What topic could we host a joint TED Talk on at this point?
- What on-screen couple would you compare our relationship to?
- What's a phrase of mine that's become part of your vocabulary?
- What's the difference between me being cute and me being hot to you?
- Would you rather spend 5 minutes with me or 24 hours with my parents?
- What have we done together that would make a great scene in a rom-com?
- What's the flirtiest thing I've ever said or done without realizing it?
- What's one thing you never did before dating me but do all the time now?
- What's a completely random moment with me that lives rent-free in your head?
- If we got trapped in a reality show together, which one would we survive best?
- If we had an embarrassingly accurate couples Halloween costume, what would it be?
- What's something about me that would instantly give me away in a game of Guess Who?
- What's the weirdest thing you've caught me doing when I thought no one was watching?
- If we woke up tomorrow in each other's bodies, who in your life could I turn to for help?
Closer
- When did you know you loved me?
- If you could look 15 years into our future for just 30 seconds, what would you want to see?
- When do you feel most appreciated by me?
- When did you know this was more than casual?
- What does a good week together look like for you?
- Which argument of ours do you think made us better?
- How do you like to be looked after when you're sick?
- What do you think we're better at than most couples?
- What's one thing you'd like us to do more of, and one thing less of?
- Is there a plan of yours you've put on hold for us, even a small one?
- What did you learn about love from watching your parents, good or bad?
- What's something from your past you don't think I fully understand yet?
- What's your favorite memory of us?
- What are my green flags and my red flags?
- What quality of mine do you wish you had?
- How do you picture us growing old together?
- What's the most memorable kiss you've ever had?
- Am I different in groups than when it's just us?
- How did our first date differ from what you expected?
- What's a question you've wanted to ask me but haven't?
- Looks aside, what's the most attractive thing about me?
- What's a way you show love that people might not notice?
- What's something I said once that you still think about?
- What's something your friends know about you that I don't?
- What's one thing you find intimate that isn't sexual at all?
- What do you remember about the moment you first fell in love?
- What's a small thing I've done that made you feel extra loved?
- What advice would you give your past self right before we met?
- What do you remember about the first time I told you I love you?
- If we met for the first time today, would you still fall for me?
- What's a moment of ours you wish we had recorded or photographed?
- Of your family and friends, who has the best relationship, and why?
- What's something small I did early on that left a lasting impression?
- What's something you think we'll still be doing together when we're old?
- What's one thing we completely disagree on but have learned to live with?
- Would you rather never hold someone's hand again or never kiss them again?
- What's your favorite photo of us, and what do you remember about that day?
- When was the first time you said "I love you" to someone outside your family?
- If we switched lives for a day, what would you most and least look forward to?
- What's a romantic gesture that would feel small to most people but huge to you?
- If we made a time capsule of our relationship right now, what would you put in it?
- If we got to relive one year of our relationship again, which year would you choose?
- What's one date of ours that didn't go as planned but turned out better because of it?
- If you could know one thing about your partner's thoughts, what would you want to know?
- Would you rather have a partner with a similar personality but different hobbies, or the other way around?
Deep
- Would you rather your partner always be honest or always be kind?
- What would you like us to be remembered for?
- What's something you're afraid to ask me for?
- Which part of you do you think I haven't met yet?
- What's a promise you know you could actually keep?
- When have you felt far from me, even in the same room?
- What does home mean to you now, compared to five years ago?
- How do you want us to handle it if one of us changes a lot?
- What are you still working on forgiving, in me or in yourself?
- What do you worry about for us that you haven't said out loud?
- What would you want me to know if you couldn't tell me yourself?
- When do you feel most chosen by me?
- How have I changed you for the better?
- What's something you think I get wrong about you?
- Is there anything you're afraid to talk to me about?
- What's something we've never talked about but should?
- What's something I don't say or do that you wish I would?
- Is there anything you want to tell me but are nervous to say?
- What experience shaped the way you love more than people realize?
- What's something you hope never changes about me, even as we change?
- If we could only do one thing together before we die, what would it be?
- What's something from a past relationship that you've unlearned with me?
- What have you noticed about me that I don't give myself enough credit for?
- If you could bottle one moment from our relationship, which would you pick?
- What would your loved ones who are no longer with us say about our relationship?