What's a red flag about you?
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For the friends you've known forever and the ones you're still getting to know. It starts with who'd die first in a horror film and ends somewhere much more honest.
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Light
- What's a red flag about you?
- What's the story behind your best scar?
- What's the most off-brand thing about you?
- If your life were a movie, what would the title be?
- If we both got arrested, what would people assume we did together?
- Not counting yourself, who here has the most main character energy?
- If someone thought your phone was stolen, what question would prove it's really you?
- What's a trend you joined and quietly regret?
- What's the strangest job you've had, or almost had?
- What's a small thing that can ruin your whole morning?
- Which of us survives longest in a horror film, and who goes first?
- What did you want to be at nine years old, and how far off are you?
- What's a song you know every word to and have never admitted to liking?
- If you had to teach a class tomorrow with no prep, what would it be on?
- What's a food you loved as a kid that you'd be embarrassed to order now?
- Which app on your phone would you be most nervous to hand over, unlocked?
- What's the last thing you bought that turned out to be completely worth it?
- What's your hottest take?
- What's your craziest roommate story?
- What were you ahead of the curve on?
- Who was your strangest celebrity crush?
- What was your first online screen name?
- What's your most unpopular food opinion?
- What took you way too long to figure out?
- What's a rule you secretly love to break?
- What's the strangest dream you've ever had?
- When did you laugh the hardest in your life?
- What's the weirdest place you've ever slept?
- Who at this table would handle a crisis best?
- Who's the most bizarre person you've ever met?
- What movie title best describes our friendship?
- What kind of old person do you think you'll be?
- What's the worst advice you've ever been given?
- What's the scariest FUN thing you've ever done?
- What's your mildly annoying villain origin story?
- What does the last text message on your phone say?
- Who would you want at your table for trivia night?
- What's the pettiest hill you're willing to die on?
- If we started a business together, what would it be?
- What's the craziest thing you've ever done on a dare?
- How would your best friend describe you in five words?
- If I became famous, what do you think it would be for?
- What do you like but are kind of embarrassed to admit?
- What celebrity could you picture me being friends with?
- What song instantly takes you back to being a teenager?
- What did you do as a teenager that makes you cringe now?
- Which argument would you like to settle once and for all?
- What fact completely floored you when you first heard it?
- What's a song you pretend isn't on your most-played list?
- What TV show do you secretly watch but pretend you don't?
- What's something you've done once and will never do again?
- What movie or TV character are you most accidentally like?
- What's a funny nickname you've had, and how did you get it?
- What's the superpower of the person sitting across from you?
- What TV show or movie are you embarrassed to admit you love?
- What habit of mine always makes you laugh, or roll your eyes?
- What were you sure you'd grow out of, but absolutely haven't?
- Who would you choose to be president of your friendship group?
- What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever said on a date?
- What's the silliest thing you have an emotional attachment to?
- When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried, and why?
- What's the most unnecessary thing you're oddly passionate about?
- What is the wildest thing you would consider doing to your hair?
- What's a conspiracy theory you secretly find a little believable?
- Where would your friends or family be most surprised to find you?
- What's the funniest practical joke you've ever played on someone?
- If we had to survive a zombie apocalypse, what would our roles be?
- If you had to describe me as a meme or GIF, which one would it be?
- If your life had a chaotic side quest right now, what would it be?
- What three words would you use to describe the person on your left?
- What do you recommend so often that you deserve a commission on it?
- In a movie about our lives, which celebrities would play you and me?
- What's something everyone loves that you think is totally overrated?
- If you could ban one annoying social habit forever, what would it be?
- If we swapped lives for a week, what's the first thing you'd do as me?
- What advice do you confidently give but never actually follow yourself?
- What's the most unnecessary thing you own that you'd defend to the end?
- When did you laugh so hard you thought you'd cry, and what was so funny?
- Which reality show would we win together, and which one would destroy us?
- What's a piece of technology you think the world would be better without?
- If your life were a movie, what genre would it be and who would play you?
- What do you do differently from most people but swear your way is better?
- Who would be your partner in a comedy double act, and what's your duo name?
- What's a conspiracy theory you find intriguing, even if you don't believe it?
- What are you really good at, but kind of embarrassed that you are good at it?
- What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever accidentally messaged someone?
- What's happening now that people will look back on and laugh about in 20 years?
Closer
- What is your silent act of defiance?
- If you could tell your childhood crush one thing, what would it be?
- What's the best advice you ignored?
- Who do you text first when something good happens?
- When did you first think we might end up being friends?
- What's a habit of mine you've picked up without meaning to?
- What's something you've changed your mind about in the last year?
- Which place do you think about going back to more than you'd expect?
- What's a rule you grew up with that you've kept, and one you've dropped?
- If you could relive one ordinary day from the last five years, which would it be?
- What's a hill you're willing to die on?
- What's a toxic trait you're not proud of?
- What's the most trouble you've ever been in?
- What's an item you lost that you still mourn?
- What part of adulthood surprised you the most?
- What's the most illegal thing you've ever done?
- When have you felt your biggest adrenaline rush?
- What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?
- What song instantly makes you think of me and why?
- What was the most intense experience of your life?
- What's a lie you've told to seem more interesting?
- What was one of the scariest moments of your life?
- What do you think about when you're falling asleep?
- What's the craziest thing you've ever done for love?
- Have you ever seen something you still can't explain?
- When did you first realize we were going to be friends?
- What's the strangest coincidence you've ever experienced?
- What's something about you that nobody at this table knows?
- When and where was your first-ever date, and how did it go?
- What was your first impression of me, and how has it changed?
- What did you do growing up that you'd never let your own kids do?
- What's the strangest way you've ever become friends with someone?
- What's one thing about you that you'd never mention on a first date?
- If you could relive one moment from our friendship, what would it be?
- What is the craziest thing you've ever done and would you do it again?
- If you made a playlist of your life, what would the top five songs be?
- What's one thing we've done together that you'll tell your grandkids about?
- What's something you did that was so out of character nobody would believe it?
Deep
- What's a question you've always wanted to ask someone here but never dared to?
- What's one thing you appreciate about our friendship that you've never said out loud?
- When did you last cry, and what brought it on?
- What are you scared you'll never get round to doing?
- When have you felt most alone, even with people around?
- Is there a friendship you lost that you'd fix if you could?
- What do you need more of from your friends and never ask for?
- What's a moment from our friendship you think I've forgotten?
- What would you want us to still be doing together in twenty years?
- What part of your life right now do you call "fine" when it isn't?
- What's something you've wanted to tell me but never found the right moment for?
- Who's the one who got away?
- What's the hardest thing you'd trust me to help you with?
- What advice would you give me if you knew I wouldn't be offended?
- Would you want to know if a friend secretly disliked your partner?
- If I talked to someone who doesn't like you, what would they tell me about you?